Dr. Jocelyn Elise Crowley analyzes in Thrive Magazine, Winter/Spring 2026, how divorce after the age of 50—known as “gray divorce”—affects men and women differently, according to a May 5 statement. Her research highlights that while gray divorce has become more common, it brings distinct challenges and outcomes for each gender.
The rise in gray divorces is significant because it signals changes in societal attitudes toward marriage and aging. As life expectancy increases and stigma around divorce decreases, more adults over 50 are choosing to separate. This trend impacts families, social circles, and professional fields.
Crowley’s study is based on interviews with 80 individuals who experienced gray divorce. She found that both men and women reported feelings of loneliness, financial anxiety, and social disruption after separating later in life. According to her findings: “Participants described feelings of loneliness, financial anxiety, and social disruption, with women often concerned about long-term financial stability and men more likely to experience social isolation.” Despite these difficulties, Crowley said most people ultimately believed their decision was correct: “Despite these difficulties, most individuals ultimately felt their decision was the right one, finding greater happiness and a renewed sense of autonomy over time.” She also observed that popular media’s portrayal of gray divorce as liberating does not capture the full complexity faced by those involved: “While popular media often portrays gray divorce as liberating or empowering, the reality is more complex and deeply personal.”
The Edward J. Bloustein School of Planning and Public Policy at Rutgers University supports research into issues like these through its various centers focused on community development, health policy, workforce development and other areas; it also holds national rankings for its graduate urban planning program (third) and undergraduate public health program (fourth), according to the official website.
Stuart Shapiro became dean of the Edward J. Bloustein School in 2023 according to the official website. The school operates within Rutgers University—the State University of New Jersey—and focuses on fostering just communities locally as well as globally.

